Seeking NON-licensed counselor/coach for relationship counseling
I am seeking a counselor/coach type person -- female only -- and surely unlicensed, for discussion and dialog about relationships. But I seek a situation where you are comfortable with me being undressed, fully exposed, during our meetings and discussion. That's not allowed for licensed counselors/therapists, but unlicensed persons have more flexibility. I enjoy talking through my life issues with someone creative and empathic, and in particular am seeking relationship counseling. I am not seeking sex. But exposure and expression facilitates verbal revealing. I am a single man, middle-aged. Apart from discussion about relationships and dating, you'll find that in such other conversation as naturally arises, I'm intelligent, curious, well-educated, thoughtful. I think I can be funny at times. In case it matters, I guess I'm decent looking, some women find me handsome, not all. A little overweight, not too much. I'd prefer contacts from counselors/coaches who are at least 30 or older, though a bit younger are welcome to make contact. But generally, more experience with life and dating, and closer to my experience, is likely to work better. In deep or personal conversations, I'm usually more at ease with white or Asian women (no disrespect to others, it's just my cultural base); but I am open to women of other ethnicities making contact and seeing where the mutual comfort level is. If you answer, please tell me about anything that you've done that's even kind of related -- former therapists and graduate students in counseling are encouraged to reply. But really any articulate, insightful, empathic woman may be right -- a businesswoman, an academic, military, also a massage therapist, nurses, female , or even an (but once again I am not seeking sex here, not intercourse or oral or any such thing here) -- someone with experience in listening to people on the job, may be right for this and for me. Along with exploring relationship issues, this sort of experience is a chance for me to feel acceptance and companionship in the company of a woman. It's obviously necessary that you be comfortable with a man; but also, with the possibility that at moments during such discussion I may become aroused. I emphasize that there would be no sex, and that the conversation and dialog and coaching are a very real part of this, and very important to me. If interested, write to me and I can tell you more about what I'm seeking. I will offer reasonable hourly remuneration for your counseling, coaching and listening skills, and for the environment of acceptance you create. ($50/hour, possibly more, negotiable.) Please confirm your age and also confirm that you can host. If you're comfortable with it, you can provide a indication of where you are located. I would hope, if it works out, that this would be a once or twice a month type experience, ongoing for some time. I am not seeking a "Domme." A real counselor, even unlicensed, is still someone whom I pay, but who builds a genuine, personal authentic connection, in the sense of really getting to know me and wanting to help me improve my life. If the connection works, a counselor/coach really develops a genuine concern for a client, and can, in a sense, celebrate with the client whatever progress the client makes in improving the quality of his life. I am seeking the kind of human bonding, support and connection that comes from a real counselor. If you are a Domme, either in private life or professionally, you'd probably be comfortable with all this, and I'd welcome hearing from you; but I am not seeking that side of your personality ( your dungeon space). Put ' Freud' in the subject line to filter out spam.