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Ive reached a point in my life where Im ready for more. More laughter. More adventure. More excitement. More imagination. More exploration. More love. More tears. More soul. More chances. But in order to get more I am not willing to make myself any less.
There is a very good chance that I wont find anything on slist. Ive scrolled through enough personal ads (from men and women) to get an idea of how jaded weve become. It seems that in this century any time that a relationship requires work and effort then it is therefore too much drama and impossible. It seems that a lot of women expect men to ride in on white horses and save them from loneliness because God forbid anyone is singe and happy. And it seems that a lot of men believe that if a woman is larger than a size 6 then she deserves less love and respect and should shut up and be grateful for the attention that she deserves.
So Im here. A unicorn. Seeking a dragon. Because it appears that being a confident plus-sized woman (size 22) who is constantly working on herself and yet happy with her life is just as elusive as a unicorn. Im not saying that I dont have baggage or insecurities. But I am comfortable with myself and know what Im good at and what needs improving.
Im a story by birth. I drive my car to work and can come up with the sagas of each person that I drive past. Im creative with a wickedly dry and often dark sense of humor. Yet Im charming and people tend to open up to me easily. Im a good problem solver who never takes any problem *too* seriously. There is no winning at life we all die in the end (unless youre immortal, in which case, bravo) so why not make the best of what you can?
Admittedly I am rather anti-social. Once I get to a party or gathering then Im perfect. But the idea of leaving my comfy sweat pants and the couch on my day off can be exhausting. Clubs and loud bar scenes dont typiy thrill me but if youre the right kind of guy then Ill have no problem spending my night making you squirm until all you can think about is getting me home.
I firmly believe that dogs are better than cats, people should bust out and dance randomly more and that there is nothing sexier than us nerdy women.
Im attracted to cool and crisp bed sheets, mint lotion, thunderstorms, a good smelling man, coffee and long hot showers.
I fail horribly at singing, but will sing anyways. My mind works faster than my mouth, so I often have to explain things twice when Im excited to get my point across. I love useless trivia. I believe that relationships should go slow in the beginning there is no need to begin something new and immediately start seeing the person six days a week. Sometimes the excitement of seeing them and the realization of missing them is the best part of a relationship.
Because I am a unicorn, I will never ask you to save me or rescue me from my life. Mostly because, even though its hard and tough sometimes, my life is my own and I dont need to be rescued from it. I have the scars and tattoos from building it myself and all the mistakes I made along the way.
And so the unicorn seeks the dragon. Another mythical creature who does not seem to live on the Internet, and may not exist in the world at all.
The elusive dragon is a man who is comfortable enough to admit when he messed up and tries to fix things instead of breaking down or running away. Dragons see that women are beautiful no matter what shape, size, race, ethnicity or age they are. They understand that compassion, intelligence, kindness, humor, giving a good massage, hand written letters or and being able to laugh at yourself are the quickest ways to my heart. They realize that not every relationship has to be so consuming that two people cant be with family or friends when theyre together. Dragons are not looking for someone just to fill the void because theyre lonely. They want a specific person who fills all the More in their life. Just like unicorns single older woman seeking group sex black teen do.
If youve read this entire thing then I applaud you. Perhaps my mythical animal analogy went a little far (its past midnight on a Sunday night,
give me a break) but hopefully Ive made myself clear. I want more. And I hope you find whatever kind of "more" youre looking for.
I am seeking a Man over 40
Still searching for the elusive, none judgmental Sexy Handsome Man to share a fun future together :) I am seeking a Man over 40, with the same diagnosis as myself. Please Read the Whole post.
I was given an unwanted "GIFT/HSV2" at some point in my life and only just found out about it this past summer. ( FACT, 20% of the population have HSV 2 (genital) but are undiagnosed many dont get any symptoms ever, 90% of the population has HSV1 (Oral aka COLD SORES) many are aware and go Unjudged and can spread it to the genitals of there sex partners too! ;) )
MANY are diagnosed and DONT tell you, and freely spread it, be thankful that Im being honest! ;)
If you received the same diagnosis, feel free to contact me, ONLY IF YOU HAVENT ALREADY.
I am in my late 40s, taller, Few Extra lbs, No hard body, well endowed (feminine endowment, duh), SEEKING a SINGLE Male, Tall, well endowed preferred, for a Monogamous Dating relationship. Someone fun, who enjoys sports, outings, camping, music, great sense of humor and is 4:20 friendly and looking for just one Lady to spend quality time with for the long term. Prefer someone with no and visitation schedules. Employed and intelligent. 40 yrs +.
Pic exchange will need to happen early on in chatting. Pics in first messages will gain the most respect and prompt reply.
PLEASE PROVIDE YOUR STATS IN YOUR INITIAL MESSAGE SO i KNOW THAT YOU READ THIS WHOLE POST! :)
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